![]() Waring says her "mom radar" is always on because she believes negative influences, including entertainers like Britney Spears, are everywhere. "It takes a very strong adolescent to know what's right and what's wrong and not get sucked into all this stuff," says Emily Waring, 40, a paralegal from San Diego and mother of two girls, ages 9 and 2. It can be done, but an ancient rule of warfare applies: first, know thy enemy. It's just that the struggle to impart the right values to our kids is a 24/7 proposition. And in many ways it's a great time to be a girl: women are excelling in sports, academics and the job market. Statistical evidence indicates that our girls are actually doing pretty well, in spite of Paris Hilton and those like her: teen pregnancy, drinking and drug use are all down, and there is no evidence that girls are having intercourse at a younger age. ![]() Experts say attentive parents, strong teachers and nice friends are an excellent counterbalance to our increasingly sleazy culture. Here's a radical idea-at home, where they always have. The answers are likely to lie in yet another question: where do our children learn values? One thing is not in doubt: a lot of parents are wondering about the effect our racy popular culture may have on their kids and the women they would like their girls to become. Many conservative thinkers view our sex-drenched culture as dangerous liberals are more prone to wave off fears about the chastity of our daughters as reactionary. mom calls "prosti-tots," young girls who dress like tarts, live for Dolce & Gabbana purses and can neither spell nor define such words as "adequate"? Or does the rise of the bad girl signal something more profound, a coarsening of the culture and a devaluation of sex, love and lasting commitment? We're certainly not the first generation of parents to worry about such things, nor will we be the last. But are there really harmful long-term effects of overexposure to Paris Hilton? Are we raising a generation of what one L.A. Julie Seborowski, a first-grade teacher at Kumeyaay Elementary School in San Diego, says she sees it in her 7-year-old students: girls using words like "sexy," singing pop songs with suggestive lyrics and flirting with boys. "I loved everything from her outfits to her attitude," she says. Paris Hilton "was always somewhere, doing something," says Melissa Monaco, an 18-year-old senior at Oldfield's boarding school for girls in Maryland, who describes herself as a recovered Paris Hilton addict. Hardly a day passes when one of them isn't making news. A recent NEWSWEEK Poll found that 77 percent of Americans believe that Britney, Paris and Lindsay have too much influence on young girls. Girls, on the other hand, are their biggest fans. But while boys are willing to take a peek at anyone showing skin, they're baffled by the feuds, the fashions and faux pas of the Brit Pack. And if US magazine, which changed the rules of mainstream celebrity journalism, is too slow with the latest dish on "Brit's New Man," kids can catch up 24/7 with hugely popular gossip blogs like, tmz.com or .Īllow us to confirm what every parent knows: kids, born in the new-media petri dish, are well aware of celebrity antics. Videos like "Girls Gone Wild on Campus Uncensored" bring in an estimated $40 million a year. ![]() Like never before, our kids are being bombarded by images of oversexed, underdressed celebrities who can't seem to step out of a car without displaying their well-waxed private parts to photographers. Something's in the air, and I wouldn't call it love. Or the more recent report that Lindsay had checked into rehab after passing out in a hotel hallway, an item that ran on the Post's Page Six opposite a photo of Kate Moss falling down a stairway while dressed in little more than a fur jacket and a pack of cigarettes. Or Britney Spears's "collapse" during a New Year's Eve party in Las Vegas. Or that her two hours of research left her bruised "everywhere." Then again, Lindsay's professional trials are easy to explain compared with Nicole Richie's recent decision to stop her car in the car-pool lane of an L.A. I didn't want to explain that Lindsay, who, like Paris Hilton and Britney Spears, sometimes parties pantyless, was taking pole-dancing lessons to prepare for a movie role. ![]() "That's Lindsay Lohan," she said proudly. I sometimes catch her humming the movie's theme song, Nat King Cole's "Love." She likes "Herbie Fully Loaded" and now we're cycling through "Freaky Friday." So when my daughter spotted a photo of Lindsay in the New York Post at the breakfast table not long ago, she was psyched. She's seen "The Parent Trap" at least 10 times. ![]() She loves Lindsay's hair she loves Lindsay's freckles. My 6-year-old daughter loves Lindsay Lohan. ![]()
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